Depression in children and adolescents presents differently than it does in adults, and effective treatment requires clinicians who understand those differences deeply. A depressed child may not say "I feel sad." Instead, they might complain of stomachaches before school, refuse to participate in activities they used to enjoy, or become unusually clingy or irritable. A depressed teenager might express their pain through anger, risk-taking, academic decline, or social isolation, behaviors that are easily misread as typical adolescent defiance.

At Everyday Parenting, our clinicians are specifically trained in child and adolescent development, which means we recognize the subtle and not-so-subtle ways depression manifests across different ages and stages. Julie Milstein, LMSW, brings focused expertise in working with elementary-aged children, pre-teens, and adolescents navigating depression, trauma, and behavioral concerns. Her integrative approach ensures that therapy is developmentally appropriate, using play-based methods with younger children who process the world through action and imagination, and more verbal, insight-oriented techniques with teenagers who are beginning to think abstractly about their own inner lives.

This developmental specificity matters because a one-size-fits-all approach to depression treatment often fails young people. A child forced into adult-style talk therapy may shut down. A teenager offered only surface-level coping skills may disengage because they sense their deeper pain isn't being addressed. Our team calibrates every aspect of treatment to your child's unique developmental stage, personality, and clinical needs, so therapy actually connects, and your child begins to feel understood for the first time.

Many parents come to us after trying approaches that addressed their child's behavior on the surface without getting to the root of what was driving the depression. At Everyday Parenting, we take an integrative therapeutic approach that combines multiple evidence-based modalities to create a treatment experience tailored to your child's specific needs. This isn't a rigid protocol applied the same way to every client, it's a thoughtful, clinically informed blend of techniques chosen because they work for your child.

Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) forms a core component of our work, helping children and teens identify the negative thought patterns that fuel depressive episodes and replace them with healthier, more accurate ways of seeing themselves and the world. For many young people, learning to recognize the connection between their thoughts, feelings, and behaviors is genuinely empowering, it gives them a sense of agency over something that has felt out of their control.

We also draw on psychodynamic therapy to explore the deeper emotional currents beneath the surface. For children who have experienced loss, family disruption, social difficulties, or trauma, depression often has relational roots that behavioral strategies alone cannot address. By helping your child understand how their past and present relationships shape their emotional world, we support lasting change rather than temporary relief.

When trauma is a factor, our clinicians incorporate trauma-informed care principles to ensure that therapy feels safe and that your child's nervous system is supported throughout the healing process. This layered, integrative model means we can adapt fluidly as your child's needs evolve over the course of treatment.

One of the most common things we hear from parents is, "I don't know what to do. I feel helpless." Depression can make a child pull away from the very people who want to help them most, leaving parents feeling confused, frustrated, and sometimes even rejected. At Everyday Parenting, we believe that therapy is most effective when parents and caregivers are meaningfully involved in the process, not as bystanders waiting in the lobby, but as active partners in their child's healing.

From the very first session, our clinicians work to understand the family context surrounding your child's depression. We recognize that a child's emotional health doesn't exist in isolation; it's shaped by family dynamics, communication patterns, life transitions, and the relational environment at home. That's why we dedicate time to helping parents gain deeper insight into what their child is experiencing and why. We share practical tools and strategies you can use at home to reinforce the progress your child is making in therapy, from how to respond when your child withdraws to how to create space for difficult conversations without pushing too hard.

This collaborative approach is central to the Everyday Parenting philosophy. Our founders built this practice on the belief that supporting families, not just individuals, creates the most meaningful and lasting change. For families in New York City and Westchester, where the pace of life is relentless, and the pressures on children are immense, having a therapeutic team that understands your family's unique context and equips you with real-world guidance makes all the difference. You don't have to navigate your child's depression alone.

For a child or teenager experiencing depression, the world can feel like a place where no one truly understands what they're going through. They may feel pressure to perform at school, maintain friendships, and meet expectations while silently carrying a weight they can't articulate. Therapy should be the one place where that weight can be set down, where your child feels safe enough to be honest about what they're experiencing without fear of judgment, disappointment, or being told to just "try harder."

At Everyday Parenting, creating that sense of safety is not an afterthought, it's the foundation of everything we do. Our clinicians are trained to build genuine therapeutic rapport with young people, meeting them where they are emotionally and developmentally. For younger children, this might mean spending early sessions playing, drawing, or storytelling, activities that build trust while opening doors to emotional expression. For teenagers, it often means demonstrating that we respect their autonomy, take their experiences seriously, and won't try to "fix" them before we've truly listened.

This matters because the therapeutic relationship itself is one of the most powerful predictors of positive outcomes in therapy. When a child feels genuinely seen and understood by their therapist, they are more willing to engage in the hard work of exploring painful emotions, challenging negative beliefs, and trying new ways of coping. Our offices in Manhattan and Hartsdale are designed to feel warm, comfortable, and welcoming, a deliberate contrast to the clinical environments that can make young people feel anxious or guarded. Every detail, from the physical space to the way our clinicians communicate, is designed to tell your child: You are safe here. You matter.

When your child is struggling with depression, you want to know that the person treating them is not just competent, but exceptional. At Everyday Parenting, we are uncompromising in the clinical standards we uphold. Founded by Dr. Layne Raskin and Dr. Jeanette Sawyer Cohen, our practice has grown to a team of 12 experienced clinicians who are leaders in their respective areas of expertise. We are selective about who joins our team because we believe your family deserves nothing less than the best.

Julie Milstein, LMSW, exemplifies this commitment. With specialized training in child welfare, trauma-informed care, and child-centered play therapy, Julie brings both depth of knowledge and genuine compassion to her work with children and adolescents experiencing depression. Her academic training at Loyola University and the University of Michigan, where she specialized in child welfare and child maltreatment, combined with her clinical experience at the Children's Law Center in New York and the Family Assessment Clinic in Ann Arbor, gives her a rare breadth of expertise in working with young people facing complex emotional challenges.

This emphasis on clinical excellence is not about credentials for their own sake. It's about ensuring that every family who walks through our doors receives care that is thoughtful, research-backed, and tailored to their unique situation. We often serve intellectually curious parents who expect exceptional care and want to understand the "why" behind our recommendations. Our team thrives in this environment, providing the kind of rigorous, evidence-based treatment that gives families genuine confidence in the therapeutic process. When the stakes are your child's mental health, expertise matters, and at Everyday Parenting, it's non-negotiable.

Depression doesn't wait for a convenient appointment time, and finding the right therapist shouldn't be limited by geography. Everyday Parenting offers flexible options to ensure your family can access the specialized care your child needs, whether you're in Midtown Manhattan, Westchester County, or connecting from home in New Jersey, Connecticut, or Florida.

Our Manhattan office, located at 330 West 58th Street, is easily accessible for families across New York City, while our Hartsdale location at 280 North Central Avenue serves families throughout Westchester County and the surrounding areas. For families who prefer the convenience and comfort of remote sessions, or whose child may feel more at ease in their own environment, we offer secure online therapy that maintains the same level of clinical quality and personal connection as in-person visits.

This flexibility is especially important for families navigating childhood or adolescent depression because consistency in therapy attendance is critical to outcomes. When logistical barriers like long commutes, scheduling conflicts, or a child's reluctance to leave the house threaten to disrupt treatment, having multiple access points makes it far more likely that your child will receive the sustained, regular care they need. We work with families to find the format and schedule that best supports their child's progress. Whether your family's life is centered in the city, the suburbs, or a combination of both, Everyday Parenting makes it possible to get your child the help they deserve without adding unnecessary stress to an already difficult time.