ADOS Autism Evaluations for Children in Westchester & NYC

Clear Answers About Your Child's Development, Whether or Not It Leads to a Diagnosis

EVERYDAY PARENTING PSYCHOLOGY, PLLC

You've noticed something. Maybe your child struggles to connect with peers, or meltdowns happen over changes that seem small.

Perhaps a teacher, pediatrician, or another professional has gently suggested that your child might be on the autism spectrum. Or maybe you've been told it's "just anxiety" or "just ADHD," but something still doesn't quite fit. You deserve more than a maybe. You deserve an evaluation thorough enough to answer the question clearly, one way or the other.

At Everyday Parenting Psychology, we provide gold-standard ADOS-based autism evaluations for children ages 6 through 12 at our Westchester and New York City offices. Our evaluations are designed not just to assign or rule out a diagnosis, but to give you a deep, nuanced understanding of how your child thinks, feels, and experiences the world. We specialize in differential diagnosis, carefully distinguishing autism from conditions that can look remarkably similar, including anxiety, ADHD, sensory processing differences, and attachment disruptions. This precision matters because the right understanding leads to the right support.

Families across Westchester County and NYC choose our practice because we combine clinical rigor with genuine compassion. We know that pursuing an evaluation is a significant step, one that often comes with uncertainty and emotion. Our team is here to walk alongside you through every stage of the process, providing clarity, context, and a path forward that honors your child's unique strengths and needs.

Our comprehensive autism evaluation for school-age children is a multi-component assessment designed to build a complete picture of your child's cognitive, social, emotional, and behavioral functioning.

At the center of the evaluation is the Autism Diagnostic Observation Schedule, Second Edition (ADOS-2), widely recognized as the gold standard in autism assessment. The ADOS-2 is a semi-structured, play-based, and conversational assessment that allows our clinician to directly observe how your child communicates, interacts, and responds in real time. It is administered by Dr. Samantha Smith, who is trained in ADOS administration and experienced in evaluating the complex presentations common in school-age children.

The evaluation extends well beyond the ADOS itself. It includes an in-depth caregiver interview where we gather your observations, concerns, and developmental history, because no one knows your child better than you do. 

We conduct IQ and cognitive testing to understand your child's intellectual profile, which is especially important for identifying twice-exceptional (2e) children whose giftedness may mask autism traits, or whose autism may obscure their intellectual strengths. Standardized questionnaires completed by parents and, when applicable, teachers, help us capture behavior across settings. A thorough review of prior records, including school reports, previous evaluations, and relevant medical history, ensures nothing is overlooked. When it would meaningfully inform our understanding, we also offer an optional classroom observation to see how your child navigates the social and sensory demands of the school environment.

What distinguishes our evaluation process is the care we take in differential diagnosis. Many children referred for autism assessment present with overlapping features of anxiety, ADHD, or sensory processing challenges. A trauma-informed lens is woven throughout, ensuring that behaviors rooted in relational or environmental experiences are not misattributed to autism, and that autism is not missed because another condition appears more prominent. The result is a comprehensive report that gives you clear answers, actionable recommendations, and a roadmap for supporting your child, whether or not the evaluation results in an autism diagnosis.

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Key Benefits

  • The ADOS-2 is not a checklist or a screening tool; it is the most rigorously validated observational assessment for autism available today, and its proper administration requires specialized training and clinical expertise. At Everyday Parenting Psychology, ADOS evaluations are conducted by Dr. Samantha Smith, whose training in ADOS administration ensures that the nuanced social communication patterns, restricted interests, and behavioral flexibility differences characteristic of autism are accurately identified and interpreted.

    For families in Westchester and New York City, access to a truly qualified ADOS evaluator matters enormously. Many providers offer autism evaluations that rely primarily on parent questionnaires or brief clinical interviews, tools that, while useful, cannot capture the real-time social and communicative behaviors the ADOS is designed to elicit. The ADOS creates structured opportunities for your child to demonstrate how they initiate conversation, respond to social overtures, use gestures, engage in imaginative play, and manage transitions. These observations, combined with clinical judgment, produce a level of diagnostic clarity that questionnaires alone cannot achieve.

    This precision is especially critical for school-age children whose presentations may be subtle, compensated, or complicated by co-occurring conditions. Children who have learned to "mask" social difficulties, girls whose autism may present differently than the stereotypical profile, and twice-exceptional children whose intellectual strengths offset areas of challenge all benefit from the structured, expert observation the ADOS provides. When you choose our practice, you can be confident that your child's evaluation meets the highest clinical standard available and that the findings will be respected by schools, pediatricians, and any professionals involved in your child's care.

  • One of the most consequential aspects of any autism evaluation is what it rules out, or identifies alongside. Anxiety, ADHD, sensory processing differences, giftedness, and attachment disruptions can all produce behaviors that overlap with autism spectrum characteristics. A child with severe social anxiety may avoid eye contact and struggle in peer interactions. A child with ADHD may have difficulty with conversational turn-taking and appear to miss social cues. A child with a history of relational trauma may show restricted emotional expression or difficulty with reciprocity. Without careful differential diagnosis, these children risk being misdiagnosed or having autism missed entirely because another condition is more visible.

    Our evaluation process is built specifically to untangle these overlapping presentations. Dr. Smith draws on extensive training in developmental and clinical psychology to examine not just what your child does, but why. The combination of ADOS observation, cognitive testing, caregiver interviews, and record review allows us to identify the underlying drivers of your child's behaviors, whether those drivers are rooted in neurodevelopmental difference, emotional experience, or some combination of both. A trauma-informed lens is applied throughout, ensuring that the impact of a child's relational and environmental history is carefully considered.

    For families in the greater Westchester and NYC area, this level of diagnostic specificity has practical, life-changing implications. Accurate diagnosis drives accurate intervention. A child who is anxious needs different support than a child who is autistic. A child who is both needs a plan that addresses the full picture. Our evaluation is designed to give you that complete picture, not a label applied hastily, but a thoughtful, well-substantiated understanding of your child that opens the door to the right services, accommodations, and support.

  • Parents who seek an autism evaluation want an answer. Not ambiguity. Not "let's wait and see." Not a vague recommendation to "monitor." You want to know: Is my child autistic? And if they are, what does that mean for them, and for our family? And if they aren't, then what is going on, and what should we do about it?

    Our evaluation is designed to answer these questions with the clarity and depth they deserve. Every component, the ADOS-2, cognitive and IQ testing, caregiver interview, questionnaires, record review, and optional classroom observation, is selected and sequenced to build a thorough, multi-dimensional understanding of your child. The result is a comprehensive written report that clearly states diagnostic conclusions, explains the clinical reasoning behind those conclusions, and provides specific, actionable recommendations tailored to your child's profile. Whether your child receives an autism diagnosis, a different diagnosis, or no diagnosis at all, you will leave the evaluation process understanding your child more deeply than before.

    This commitment to clarity is especially important for families navigating school systems in Westchester County and New York City, where evaluation reports often serve as the foundation for IEP development, 504 accommodations, and placement decisions. A well-written, thoroughly substantiated report carries weight with school psychologists, administrators, and committees. We write every report with the understanding that it will be read not just by you, but by the professionals who will help shape your child's educational experience. Our goal is to arm you with a document that communicates your child's needs clearly and compellingly, one that opens doors rather than creating more questions.

  • An evaluation is a vulnerable experience for a child. Being observed, tested, and asked to perform tasks by an unfamiliar adult can feel stressful, particularly for children who are already struggling with anxiety, sensory sensitivities, or social discomfort. At Everyday Parenting Psychology, we approach every evaluation with a trauma-informed framework that prioritizes your child's emotional safety and dignity throughout the process.

    In practice, this means our clinicians are attuned to signs of distress, fatigue, and overwhelm, and adjust pacing accordingly. It means we explain what's happening in age-appropriate language so your child feels like a participant, not a subject. It means we build rapport before we assess, because a child who feels safe will show us who they truly are, and that authenticity is essential for an accurate evaluation. For children with histories of adversity, loss, or relational disruption, this approach is not just preferable; it is clinically necessary. Behaviors observed in a context of fear or shutdown do not reflect a child's baseline functioning and can lead to inaccurate conclusions.

    For families in Westchester and NYC, communities where children often face high-pressure academic environments and complex family dynamics, a trauma-informed approach also means we consider the full context of your child's life. We do not evaluate your child in a vacuum. We consider how school stress, family transitions, peer dynamics, and sensory environments contribute to the picture. This ecological perspective ensures that our findings are grounded in reality, not just in test scores.

  • Autism evaluations that omit cognitive testing leave a significant gap in understanding. A child's intellectual profile, their verbal reasoning, nonverbal problem-solving, processing speed, and working memory, provides essential context for interpreting social, behavioral, and academic functioning. This is especially true for school-age children, where the demands of the classroom increasingly require the integration of cognitive, social, and executive functioning skills.

    Our evaluation includes formal cognitive and IQ testing as a standard component. For many families, this testing reveals strengths and challenges that were previously invisible. A child who appears to be "keeping up" academically may be compensating for significant processing differences through sheer intellectual ability, a pattern particularly common in twice-exceptional (2e) children. Conversely, a child whose behavior is attributed to defiance or lack of motivation may, in fact, be struggling with cognitive demands that exceed their current capacity in specific areas. Understanding these patterns changes the conversation entirely, for parents, teachers, and the child themselves.

    In the context of Westchester and NYC school systems, where academic expectations are often intense and competition for appropriate services is high, a well-documented cognitive profile strengthens your advocacy position. Schools respond to data. Our cognitive testing provides precisely the kind of objective, quantified information that supports requests for differentiated instruction, gifted programming, accommodations, or specialized services. Paired with the ADOS and our behavioral observations, the cognitive profile rounds out a comprehensive understanding that serves your child in the classroom and beyond.

  • Finding a qualified ADOS evaluator can be a frustrating process. Wait lists are long, referrals can be confusing, and many families discover that the providers available to them lack the specialized training needed for a complex differential diagnosis. Everyday Parenting Psychology offers comprehensive autism evaluations at two convenient locations, our Westchester office in Hartsdale and our Manhattan office on the Upper West Side, making expert assessment accessible to families across a wide geographic area.

    Our Westchester location at 280 North Central Avenue in Hartsdale is easily reached from communities throughout the county, including White Plains, Scarsdale, Bronxville, Dobbs Ferry, Larchmont, and beyond. Our NYC location at 330 West 58th Street is centrally positioned in Midtown Manhattan, accessible by public transportation from all five boroughs. For families who prefer or require flexibility, virtual parent consultations and feedback sessions can be conducted via telehealth for residents of New York, New Jersey, Connecticut, and Florida.

    We understand that scheduling an evaluation around a school-age child's academic and extracurricular commitments requires flexibility. Our team works with families to find appointment times that minimize disruption to your child's routine while allowing sufficient time for a thorough, unhurried assessment. From your initial inquiry through the delivery of your child's report and feedback session, you will have a clear timeline, responsive communication, and a team that treats your family's time and emotional investment with the respect they deserve.

Service Categories

Comprehensive Autism & ADOS-2 Evaluation (Ages 6–12)

Our flagship evaluation for school-age children includes ADOS-2 administration, caregiver interview, cognitive and IQ testing, standardized questionnaires, record review, and optional classroom observation. Designed for clear diagnostic conclusions and actionable recommendations. Available at our Westchester and NYC offices.

Differential Diagnostic Assessment

For children whose presentations involve overlapping features of autism, anxiety, ADHD, sensory processing differences, or attachment challenges, our evaluation process is specifically designed to distinguish between conditions, ensuring your child receives an accurate diagnosis and appropriate support.

Neurodiversity-Affirming Therapy & Support

Following evaluation, families can access neurodiversity-affirming therapy, ADHD treatment, autism support, and parent coaching within our practice. Our therapeutic services are strengths-based and designed to foster self-advocacy, emotional regulation, and family connection.

Parent Coaching & Family Support

We offer guidance for parents navigating a new diagnosis or seeking strategies to support their child's development at home and in school. Our parent coaching services are grounded in compassion and collaboration, helping families move from uncertainty to confidence.

Twice-Exceptional (2e) Evaluation & Support

For intellectually gifted children who also present with neurodevelopmental differences, our evaluation identifies the interplay between strengths and challenges, empowering families and schools to support the whole child.

Our Process

Step 1: Schedule a Consultation and Share Your Concerns

Your journey begins with an initial phone call or inquiry through our contact page. During this conversation, we'll learn about your child, your concerns, and what prompted you to seek an evaluation. We'll explain the assessment process, answer your questions, and determine whether our evaluation is the right fit for your family. This step typically takes 15–20 minutes and helps us prepare for a focused, efficient evaluation experience.

Step 2: Comprehensive Evaluation Sessions with Dr. Smith

The evaluation itself takes place over one to two sessions at our Westchester or NYC office, depending on your child's needs and pace. Dr. Samantha Smith administers the ADOS-2, conducts cognitive and IQ testing, and engages your child in structured and semi-structured activities designed to observe social communication, behavioral flexibility, and sensory responses. A detailed caregiver interview is conducted to gather your developmental history and day-to-day observations. Standardized questionnaires are completed by parents and, when appropriate, teachers.

Step 3: Record Review and Integration of All Data

Following the in-person sessions, Dr. Smith conducts a thorough review of all prior records, including previous evaluations, school reports, and relevant medical documentation. All data sources are carefully integrated to build a complete, multi-dimensional understanding of your child. If an optional classroom observation has been requested, it is scheduled during this phase to capture your child's functioning in their school environment.

Step 4: Comprehensive Report and Family Feedback Session

You will receive a detailed written report that clearly communicates diagnostic findings, explains the clinical reasoning behind them, and provides specific, actionable recommendations for home, school, and therapeutic support. A dedicated feedback session, available in person or via telehealth, walks you through the report, answers your questions, and helps you understand the next steps. The report is written to serve as an effective advocacy tool for school meetings, IEP teams, and other professionals involved in your child's care.

Step 5: Ongoing Support and Connection to Services

Your relationship with Everyday Parenting Psychology doesn't end with the report. We can connect your family with appropriate therapeutic services within our practice, including neurodiversity-affirming therapy, parent coaching, and family support, or provide referrals to trusted outside providers. We are available to consult with your child's school or other professionals to ensure that evaluation recommendations are implemented effectively.

Our Approach

At Everyday Parenting Psychology, our approach to autism evaluation is rooted in a fundamental belief: every child deserves to be deeply understood, and every family deserves honest, clear answers.

We do not approach evaluation as a process of confirming a suspected label. We approach it as an investigation, a careful, rigorous, compassionate inquiry into who your child is, how they experience the world, and what they need to thrive. Whether the outcome is an autism diagnosis, a different diagnosis, or a clearer understanding without a formal diagnostic label, our commitment to thoroughness and honesty remains the same.

Our clinical methodology reflects the intellectual rigor and evidence-based standards that define our practice. We use the ADOS-2 because it is the most validated observational tool available for autism assessment, and we pair it with cognitive testing, caregiver interviews, questionnaires, and record review because no single instrument can capture the full complexity of a child's development. Each data source is examined individually and then integrated to identify patterns, clarify ambiguities, and support conclusions that are well-substantiated and clinically defensible. This multi-method approach is particularly important for the intellectually curious, discerning families we often serve, parents who want to understand not just what the evaluation found, but how and why those conclusions were reached.

We are also deeply committed to neurodiversity-affirming and trauma-informed care. This means that we view autism and other neurodevelopmental differences through a strengths-based lens, recognizing that neurodivergent children have unique gifts alongside their challenges. It also means that we are attentive to the ways in which environmental stress, relational experiences, and systemic pressures shape a child's presentation. For families in Westchester and New York City, where children often navigate demanding school environments and complex social landscapes, this contextual sensitivity is essential. Our evaluations do not reduce your child to a set of scores. They illuminate a full, human portrait that empowers you to advocate effectively and parent with greater understanding and confidence.

Frequently Asked Questions

Everyday Parenting Psychology was founded in 2018 by Dr. Layne Raskin and Dr. Jeanette Sawyer Cohen and has grown to a team of experienced clinicians providing compassionate, evidence-based mental health care to families across Westchester County and New York City. The practice specializes in maternal mental health, child development, family therapy, neurodiversity-affirming care, and comprehensive developmental evaluations. Learn more about our team and approach.

  • The full evaluation process, from initial consultation through delivery of the written report and feedback session, typically spans three to five weeks, depending on scheduling and the complexity of your child's presentation. The in-person evaluation sessions themselves are conducted over one to two visits at our Westchester or NYC office. We provide a clear timeline at the outset so you know exactly what to expect.

  • The Autism Diagnostic Observation Schedule, Second Edition (ADOS-2) is a semi-structured, observational assessment that creates standardized opportunities for a trained clinician to observe your child's social communication, play, and behavioral flexibility in real time. It is considered the gold standard because it has the strongest research support of any autism assessment instrument. Unlike questionnaires or screening tools, the ADOS captures behavior as it happens, providing a level of diagnostic precision that other methods cannot match.

  • Not necessarily, and that is by design. Our evaluation is built to answer the diagnostic question clearly, whatever the answer may be. Some children will meet the criteria for an autism spectrum diagnosis. Others will be identified with a different condition, such as anxiety or ADHD, that better explains their symptoms. In every case, you will receive a thorough report with clear conclusions and specific recommendations, so you leave with a meaningful understanding of your child and a concrete path forward.

  • Yes. Our comprehensive evaluation report is written with school systems in mind. It includes diagnostic conclusions, standardized test scores, detailed behavioral observations, and specific recommendations for classroom accommodations, related services, and educational support. Families across Westchester County and NYC have used our reports to successfully advocate for IEPs, 504 plans, and specialized placements. We are also available to consult directly with your child's school team if needed.

  • Absolutely. In fact, many of the children we evaluate carry a prior diagnosis of ADHD, anxiety, or sensory processing disorder. A significant part of our work involves differential diagnosis, determining whether autism is present alongside another condition, whether a prior diagnosis fully accounts for your child's symptoms, or whether a revised diagnostic understanding is needed. Prior diagnoses do not preclude evaluation; they often make it more important.

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