Birth Trauma Recovery in New York City, NY
Find Healing from Traumatic Birth Experiences Through Specialized EMDR Therapy
Birth trauma can leave lasting emotional wounds that affect your relationship with motherhood, your body, and your sense of self.
Whether you experienced medical complications, emergency interventions, or felt powerless during delivery, these experiences deserve acknowledgment and specialized care. Many women struggle in silence, believing they should just be grateful for a healthy baby while dismissing their own trauma.
At Everyday Parenting, we understand that a traumatic birth experience can impact every aspect of your life, from bonding with your baby to feeling safe in your own body. Our specialized birth trauma recovery program combines EMDR therapy with trauma-informed care specifically designed for maternal mental health. We create a safe space where your experience is validated and your healing journey is supported with compassion and clinical expertise.
Located in the heart of New York City, we recognize the unique pressures facing mothers in our fast-paced urban environment. Our approach honors your strength while providing the specialized support you need to process trauma, rebuild confidence, and reclaim your sense of wholeness as you navigate motherhood.
Birth trauma recovery focuses specifically on healing the psychological and emotional impact of difficult birth experiences.
Our specialized program addresses birth-related PTSD, anxiety, depression, and the complex emotions that can arise when birth doesn't go as planned.
We understand that trauma can occur regardless of birth outcome, and we validate every mother's experience without judgment.
Our trauma-informed approach begins with creating absolute safety in the therapeutic relationship. We use EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) therapy, specifically adapted for perinatal trauma, to help process traumatic memories and reduce their emotional charge. This evidence-based treatment allows you to work through birth trauma without having to relive every detail, making healing more accessible and less overwhelming.
The recovery process addresses multiple layers of birth trauma, from specific medical events to feelings of powerlessness, fear, or disappointment. We help you process not only what happened during birth but also how it affected your sense of identity as a mother and woman. Our clinicians are specially trained in maternal mental health and understand the unique intersection of trauma, attachment, and early motherhood.
Throughout treatment, we maintain focus on your strengths and resilience while addressing trauma symptoms like flashbacks, hypervigilance, avoidance, or intrusive thoughts about the birth. We also address secondary trauma that may arise from feeling misunderstood or dismissed by medical providers, family, or friends. Our goal is to help you integrate your birth experience in a way that promotes healing, post-traumatic growth, and renewed confidence in your capacity for motherhood.
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Key Benefits
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EMDR therapy has been extensively researched and proven effective for processing traumatic experiences, including birth trauma. Our clinicians are specially trained in applying EMDR techniques to perinatal experiences, understanding the unique aspects of maternal trauma that require specialized attention.
Unlike traditional talk therapy, EMDR allows you to process traumatic birth memories without becoming overwhelmed by reliving every detail. In our New York City practice, we've seen how EMDR helps mothers move from being haunted by their birth experience to feeling empowered by their survival and strength. The bilateral stimulation used in EMDR helps your brain process the trauma naturally, reducing the emotional charge of traumatic memories.
Many clients report significant relief from symptoms like flashbacks, nightmares, and intrusive thoughts about their birth experience after EMDR treatment. This approach is particularly valuable for busy NYC mothers who need effective treatment that produces meaningful results within a reasonable timeframe.
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Trauma-informed care means we understand how trauma affects your nervous system, relationships, and sense of safety. From your first contact with our practice, every interaction is designed to promote safety, choice, and empowerment. We recognize that medical settings may now feel triggering, so we've created a therapeutic environment that feels nothing like a clinical setting, warm, welcoming, and completely under your control.
Our approach validates that birth trauma is real, regardless of what others may say about your experience. Whether you faced life-threatening complications or felt dismissed and powerless during delivery, your trauma matters. We understand that trauma isn't determined by external events alone but by your internal experience of those events.
In a city like New York, where there's pressure to bounce back quickly and appear strong, we provide a space where you can honestly process your experience without judgment. Our trauma-informed approach helps restore your sense of agency and control, which is often damaged during traumatic birth experiences.
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Birth trauma occurs within the unique context of becoming a mother, which requires a specialized understanding that goes beyond general trauma treatment. Our clinicians are experts in maternal mental health who understand the complex intersection of trauma, identity changes, hormonal fluctuations, and new parent stress.
We recognize that birth trauma can affect bonding, breastfeeding, intimacy, and your relationship with your own body in ways that require specific expertise. The transition to motherhood in New York City comes with particular pressures, from returning to demanding careers to managing in small living spaces while healing from trauma. Our maternal mental health specialists understand these urban motherhood challenges and how they intersect with trauma recovery.
We help you navigate not just the trauma itself but also how it affects your confidence as a mother, your relationship with your partner, and your plans for future pregnancies. This comprehensive understanding ensures that your healing addresses all aspects of your experience as both a trauma survivor and a new mother.
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Traditional trauma treatment sometimes requires a detailed recounting of traumatic events, which can feel retraumatizing for birth trauma survivors. Our specialized approach allows you to process your birth trauma without having to verbally relive every painful detail. EMDR therapy works with your brain's natural healing capacity, allowing traumatic memories to be processed and integrated without overwhelming your nervous system.
We understand that many mothers fear that talking about their birth trauma will make them feel worse or somehow damage their relationship with their baby. Our safe processing methods actually help you separate the trauma of the birth experience from your love for your child.
Many NYC mothers come to us feeling guilty about their traumatic birth affecting their early bonding or postpartum experience. Through safe processing, you can heal from the trauma while strengthening your connection with your baby and your confidence as a mother.
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Birth trauma often shatters trust in your body's ability to function and in medical providers' ability to keep you safe. This loss of trust can affect everything from routine medical appointments to intimate relationships to decisions about future pregnancies.
Our recovery program specifically addresses rebuilding this essential sense of trust and safety in your own body and in receiving medical care. Living in New York City means you'll continue to encounter medical settings, and we help ensure these experiences don't continue to trigger trauma responses.
We work on developing coping strategies for medical appointments, rebuilding your sense of bodily autonomy, and helping you feel empowered to advocate for yourself in healthcare settings. Many clients find that as they heal from birth trauma, they develop a stronger sense of self-advocacy and body wisdom that serves them well in all areas of life.
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Birth trauma recovery isn't just about addressing the traumatic birth itself; it's about healing all the ways that trauma has affected your life as a mother, partner, and woman. Our comprehensive approach addresses trauma symptoms like hypervigilance and flashbacks while also supporting you in rebuilding confidence, processing grief over the birth you planned, and developing resilience for your ongoing motherhood journey.
We recognize that birth trauma recovery in New York City occurs alongside the demands of urban parenting, career pressures, and limited family support that many of our clients face. Our comprehensive support helps you develop practical coping strategies for daily life while doing the deeper trauma healing work.
We also provide support for partners and family members who may not understand birth trauma but want to support your healing. This holistic approach ensures that your recovery strengthens not just your individual healing but also your important relationships and your capacity to thrive as a mother in NYC.
Service Catagories
EMDR Therapy for Birth Trauma
Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) is specifically adapted for birth trauma experiences. This evidence-based approach helps process traumatic birth memories without requiring detailed verbal recounting. Our EMDR-trained clinicians understand the unique aspects of perinatal trauma and use specialized protocols to address birth-related PTSD, anxiety, and intrusive memories while supporting your ongoing recovery and bonding with your baby.
Trauma-Informed Individual Therapy
Comprehensive individual therapy using trauma-informed principles to create safety and empowerment in your healing journey. We address not only the traumatic birth experience but also its impact on your identity as a mother, your relationship with your body, and your confidence in medical settings. This therapy helps you process complex emotions, rebuild trust, and develop resilience for your ongoing motherhood experience.
Family and Partner Support
Birth trauma affects not just mothers but entire families. We provide support for partners, family members, and other children to understand birth trauma and learn how to provide appropriate support. This includes helping partners process their own potential trauma from witnessing your difficult birth experience and developing communication strategies that support your healing while strengthening family bonds.
Perinatal Mental Health Support
Specialized support that understands birth trauma within the broader context of perinatal mental health. We address how trauma intersects with postpartum depression, anxiety, and adjustment challenges. Our perinatal specialists help you navigate the unique challenges of healing from trauma while bonding with your baby, managing hormonal changes, and adapting to motherhood in New York City.
Future Pregnancy Planning
For mothers considering future pregnancies after birth trauma, we provide specialized support to process fears, develop coping strategies, and create birth plans that honor your trauma history. We work with you and your healthcare providers to ensure you feel empowered and supported in future birth experiences, helping you reclaim agency and confidence in your reproductive choices.
Our Process
1. Initial Trauma-Informed Assessment
Your healing journey begins with a comprehensive assessment conducted in a completely safe, non-clinical environment. We take time to understand your birth experience, current symptoms, and goals for recovery without rushing or pushing you to share more than feels comfortable. This assessment helps us develop a personalized treatment plan that honors your pace and specific needs. We also assess for other factors that may be affecting your recovery, such as postpartum depression or relationship stress.
2. EMDR Preparation and Stabilization
Before beginning EMDR processing, we ensure you have strong coping skills and feel completely safe in the therapeutic relationship. This preparation phase teaches you techniques to manage overwhelming emotions and physical sensations that may arise during trauma processing. We practice grounding techniques, develop your window of tolerance, and create a solid foundation of safety that will support you throughout your healing journey.
3. Trauma Processing and Integration
Using specialized EMDR protocols for birth trauma, we help you process traumatic memories at a pace that feels manageable and safe. This phase focuses on reducing the emotional charge of traumatic birth memories while helping you integrate the experience in a way that promotes healing and growth. We pay special attention to how processing affects your relationship with your baby and your confidence as a mother.
4. Recovery Consolidation and Future Planning
As trauma symptoms decrease, we focus on consolidating your recovery and building resilience for ongoing motherhood challenges. This includes developing strategies for managing potential triggers, strengthening your sense of empowerment and self-advocacy, and planning for future medical care or pregnancies if desired. We ensure you feel confident and supported as you transition from active trauma treatment to ongoing wellness.
Our Approach
Our approach to birth trauma recovery is grounded in the understanding that trauma is not just about what happened to you, but about how those experiences affected your sense of safety, control, and trust.
We believe that healing happens in a relationship, which is why we prioritize creating a therapeutic connection that feels completely safe and empowering. Every aspect of our treatment is designed to restore your sense of choice and agency, which trauma often takes away.
We integrate EMDR therapy with broader trauma-informed care principles, recognizing that birth trauma occurs within the unique context of maternal mental health. This means we understand how trauma intersects with hormonal changes, identity shifts, and the profound vulnerability that comes with new motherhood. Our clinicians are specially trained in both trauma treatment and maternal mental health, ensuring that your care addresses all aspects of your experience.
Working in New York City, we understand the additional pressures that urban motherhood can place on trauma recovery. We recognize that our clients often face unique challenges like limited space, high-stress careers, and distance from extended family support. Our approach incorporates these realities while helping you access the deep healing that trauma recovery requires. We believe that addressing birth trauma not only heals past wounds but also builds resilience and strength that will serve you throughout your motherhood journey.
Our commitment to comprehensive care means we also support your family system and important relationships affected by your trauma. We understand that healing happens not just individually but within the context of your most important connections, and we provide the support needed to strengthen these relationships as part of your recovery process.
Frequently Asked Questions
Everyday Parenting Psychology was founded in 2018 by Dr. Layne Raskin and Dr. Jeanette Sawyer Cohen, specializing in comprehensive mental health care for families. Our team of experienced clinicians provides expert maternal mental health support throughout New York City and Westchester County, with additional online services available in New Jersey, Connecticut, and Florida.
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Birth trauma involves persistent symptoms like intrusive thoughts about your birth, avoidance of birth-related topics, hypervigilance, or feeling disconnected from the experience. Unlike normal postpartum adjustment, birth trauma symptoms interfere with daily functioning and don't improve with time alone. If you're having flashbacks, nightmares, or feeling triggered by reminders of your birth experience, professional support can help determine if you're experiencing trauma and provide appropriate treatment.
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Yes, EMDR therapy is effective for processing birth trauma regardless of how much time has passed since your experience. Trauma memories are stored differently in the brain than regular memories, which is why birth trauma can feel as vivid and distressing years later as it did initially. EMDR helps your brain process these stuck memories and integrate them naturally, providing relief from symptoms even for experiences that happened years ago.
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Healing from birth trauma actually strengthens your relationship with your baby by allowing you to separate the trauma of the birth experience from your love for your child. Many mothers find that addressing birth trauma improves their bonding, reduces anxiety about their baby's safety, and helps them feel more present and connected. Our specialized approach ensures that trauma processing supports rather than disrupts your important maternal relationships.
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Absolutely. We provide specialized support for mothers considering future pregnancies after traumatic birth experiences. This includes processing fears about future births, developing coping strategies, and working with your healthcare team to create birth plans that honor your trauma history. Many mothers find that healing from previous birth trauma actually empowers them to have more positive experiences in future pregnancies and deliveries.
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Birth trauma treatment requires a specialized understanding of maternal mental health, the unique vulnerability of the perinatal period, and how trauma intersects with early motherhood. Our clinicians are trained specifically in perinatal trauma and understand factors like hormonal influences, bonding concerns, and the complex emotions that arise when trauma occurs during what's supposed to be a joyful time. This specialization ensures your treatment addresses all aspects of your experience as both a trauma survivor and a mother.
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